sadness

my boyfriend break me down

i have been lose him for a long time

but i cant forgot him

i find and find him on everyday for

i just to know ,is he okey.



ps i hope somebody can suggest me , how i forget him (cry)(cry)(cry)(cry)(cry)(cry)(cry)

 

Everythings in this world always change. Nothing is permanent. Someday you would know the truth that after he's gone, you can find someone better than him (as me, oh sorry just kidding ;-P). Today, you have to know to love yourself ..because, exactly, you love yourself more than anyone in the wolrd. You also have to know that everyone near you love you - your closefriend, your parent, your brother, your sister, and so forth. I promise someday you will know and can find someone who better than him!

Takecare,

 

Nothing always be yours forever. Everything illusion

- Solitude -

 

you don't need to forget him if you can't. Remember only good things that you had together. Life was beautiful then and it IS beautiful now.

 

I want to suggest a couple of things for you, if you don't mind.

1. Don't try to forget because you won't be able to. You just need to go on with your life without him. Keep one thing in mind, nobody love you more than yourself.

2. Don't mistake him or anybody for someone that will carry you through. You'll only end up with yourself at the end.

3. Sadness, happiness, sorrow, gratefulness, etc and human will always go together. We, human need to learn how to deal with them correctly.

4. Don't be sad when things don't go as planned, it's normal when things don't go as planned.

I know it's hard but you will eventually overcome it.

 

I want to know what love is.

What's love? Is it like when you're hungry?;19

 

:z4How can love hurt so much!

It's a matter of time. Believe me.(smile)

 

Today I listen to this song, Only The Strongest Will Survive (from Hurricane No.1). I love it, and I think you would love it too. After you listen to this song, you could restore your confidence & power. The song is here, http://www.imeem.com/25201224/music/yDHXUdG3/hurricane_1_only_the_strongest_will_survive/

And this is the lyrics :)

Hurricane No.1 - Only The Strongest Will Survive

Well my life is worth nothing to some
While to others I am number one. <--- I love this quote very much :)
And it can be so hard to know
When to try, when to give up and go

Now this feeling is reeling me in
I can feel it like it was my skin
In my head I repeat a new rule
Pain is easy, pleasure is cruel

* I tell you only the strongest will survive
These days you've got to kill yourself just to stay alive

Well there's only one life and you know
It won't take you where you want to go
Yesterday was a walk in the park
But tomorrow is a step in the dark

And my life is worthing to some
But to you I hope I am number one
In my head I repeat a new rule
Pain is easy, pleasure is cruel

[Repeat *]

Everybody's talking like they want to see the party begin
I'll be in the alley, get a taxi, cos I'm staying in

Only the strongest will survive
I'm strong enough to get you through
Are you strong enough to help me to
Only the strongest will survive

 

Love yourself, be strong. It's not the matter of forgetting him but it's the matter of remembering what he did to you. Try to think of the good and bad things about him and weigh it up and you will know that this guy is worth thinking about or not.

Forgetting someone or something is not easy, it requires a very strong will power. If you are not tough enough don't try, because you will never make it. No need to forget him, but just keep reminding yourself that you should be able to stand on your own feet and survive even without him in your life.

Do a lot of activities, like go out to the movies, meet up with friends, shopping, exercise etc. that will help you, soon he will gradually fade out of your life. Take care and wish you all the very best, stay happy.

 

You can't possibly forget about someone who has been so so emotionally affected, dear. But you can kick him out emmotionally from your heart, just stop thinking of him, stop yearning for him, you will get yourself hurt more and more. That's no point finding him, he's been alright all along before he met you, so is he after he left you. The reason finding him is because you are being attached to the past , to see if he's alright is just an excuse. This is the time to place your thought at the right palce. No point waiting. Look out there's so many Mr.right waiting for you somewhere, Just open your heart, you will find the right one. Life's short, be happy dear. :VO